How to Satisfy Your Partner’s Praise Kink
By Elizabeth Kirkhorn
Here’s How To Satisfy Your Partner’s Praise Kink, Based on Their Personality Type
If your significant other is an auditory learner, seeks positive reinforcement, or claims that words of affirmation is their love language, they may have a praise kink. Also known as affirmation play, this turn-on is easy to explore in a myriad of safe and steamy ways. Here’s your “cheat sheet” to feeding a partner’s praise kink, including dozens of phrases to steal and try out.
What is a praise kink?
A praise kink is a sexual desire to receive praise in order to get off. It’s different from receiving compliments in your day-to-day life because the result is erotic as opposed to simply “feel good.” A praise kink can manifest in a variety of ways, based on what works for you and a partner. If your significant other wants to be reassured that they’re pleasing you throughout the act, a simple, “you’re doing such a good job sucking my dick” can suffice. If you’re integrating a praise kink into a BDSM dynamic, throwing in a “good boy” as your partner nears climax can intensify a play session.
Coming up with poetic compliments and saucy phrases on the fly can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t need to be. Here, we’ve provided grab-and-go praises to try on your kinky partner next time you’re in the throes of passion. Simply find the praises that apply to your partner’s needs, and have at it.
Remember, any of these praises can always be altered based on the sexual orientation of your partner or partnership. Happy praising!
For the bratty submissive
If your partner is somewhat of a brat, or a submissive who loves to misbehave, here are some praises to try while taming them.
- Atta girl.
- You’re so sexy when you don’t get your way.
- It makes me so hard when I put you in your place.
- I get so wet when you roll your eyes at me.
- You make disrespect sound so hot.
- You took your punishment so well.
For the the body positive
Your partner wants to feel like sex personified while you’re getting it on. Give some extra love to what makes their physicality so sexy with these compliments.
- You make the hottest faces when we fuck.
- Your ass is so soft.
- I’ve been thinking about how hot your body is all day.
- I can’t believe this is all mine.
- What a pretty pussy.
- I can’t wait to show you off.
For the action-oriented lover
Don’t underestimate the ways you can use the praise kink to your advantage. If your partner likes to take a little direction, use these keywords to tap into their love of praise while also making what you want known.
- I love it when you look me in the eyes when you’re going down on me. It’s so erotic.
- Cum again for me. You’ve done such a good job.
- Just like that.
- Sit still so I can look at how beautiful you are.
- So good, baby. Now faster.
- You please me so much when you moan while I fuck you.
For the pet play enthusiast
“Good girl” and “good boy” are synonymous with pet play. Add these additional phrases to your toolkit for a little extra pizzazz when you’re engaging with your puppy, kitten, or pony.
- The way you whimper turns me on so much.
- What an adorable little thing you are.
- You take it so well for me, pet.
- You look so precious when you’re needy.
- You’re my favorite toy.
- Seeing you squirm is so adorable.
For the romantic
A praise kink doesn’t always have to have emphasis on the “kink.” One of these statements will go a long way in making your partner feel loved up.
- I’m so proud of you.
- You’re a treasure.
- You make me very happy.
- You’re safe with me.
- I can’t get enough of you and how you make me feel.
- Thank you for being who you are.
For the rope bunny
When your bondage-loving partner is tied up, blindfolded, or immobilized, their sense of sound is more heightened than ever. Take advantage of that to really get them hot and bothered the next time they’re bound.
- I’m sure you can get out of your restraints. Such a strong girl.
- Do your best for daddy.
- I know you can handle it a little tighter. You’re so good for me.
- You’re so beautiful when you struggle for me.
- You have no idea how much seeing you like this turns me on.
- Even deprived of your senses, you can still drive me wild.
For the long distance partner
Being apart doesn’t have to dull the erotic effect of being praised. Whip these out during a Zoom play session or simply over text to get your partner’s wheels turning.
- The way you touch yourself is the stuff of my dreams.
- You make such pretty sounds. Moan for me.
- It makes me smile that you’re so hard and I haven’t even touched you.
- You’ve been so patient for me. I appreciate you.
- Look at me. Good girl.
- You have a perfect penis. I wish I could take it in my mouth.
For the macho man
If your partner is male, they might be shy about asking for praise. That doesn’t mean that they don’t fantasize about hearing you whisper how handsome, strong, and seductive they are. Here’s what to try on the macho man in your life with a praise kink.
- The way your body responds to my touch makes me so hot. Go ahead. Show me how much you want it.
- The way you look at me when you fuck me makes me weak in the knees.
- When you hold me close, I feel so safe but so turned on.
- You bring out the animal in me.
- Your cock is perfect.
- Seeing you strip gets me so wet. You’re so fucking attractive.
For the long term lover
Praising your partner is an incredible way to keep the spark alive, even if you’ve been together forever. Let them know they’re still your object of desire by uttering any of these phrases.
- You still feel as good as you did the very first time.
- Your body was made for me.
- You take my breath away.
- You still fuck like a 19 year old. It’s so sexy.
- Just thinking about your lips on mine makes me crave you.
- Our sex is only getting hotter.
Enjoy!
By Elizabeth Kirkhorn
