The New Bottoming Book

by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

“The New Bottoming Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy is an engaging and insightful guide to the art and practice of bottoming in BDSM relationships. As a companion to “The New Topping Book,” this updated edition provides valuable information and support for those exploring the world of BDSM from the bottom’s perspective.

Easton and Hardy approach the topic with warmth, humor, and a deep understanding of the complexities involved in power exchange. They emphasize the importance of communication, consent, and self-awareness, making it clear that bottoming is an active and empowered role. The book is filled with practical advice on how to negotiate boundaries, express desires, and create fulfilling scenes.

What sets “The New Bottoming Book” apart is its focus on the emotional and psychological aspects of bottoming. The authors delve into the feelings and motivations behind submission, offering readers insights into their own desires and fantasies. Personal stories and anecdotes are woven throughout the text, illustrating the diverse experiences within the BDSM community and providing readers with relatable examples.

Easton and Hardy are particularly adept at debunking myths and misconceptions about bottoming. They address common fears and challenges, providing strategies for overcoming them and encouraging bottoms to embrace their desires with confidence and pride. Their inclusive and affirming approach ensures that readers of all genders and orientations feel seen and supported.

Another strength of the book is its emphasis on safety and self-care. The authors stress the importance of knowing your limits, practicing self-reflection, and maintaining a healthy balance in your BDSM explorations. They encourage bottoms to take an active role in shaping their experiences, fostering a sense of agency and empowerment.

In conclusion, “The New Bottoming Book” is an essential resource for anyone interested in exploring BDSM from the bottom’s perspective. Easton and Hardy’s thoughtful and engaging writing style, combined with their extensive experience, makes this book a valuable tool for understanding and enjoying the complexities and pleasures of bottoming. It’s a celebration of submission, intimacy, and connection, offering readers the guidance they need to create safe, consensual, and fulfilling BDSM experiences.