Focused and Filthy

Welcome to Missy’s “Not Suitable For Work” photographic blog, where she candidly shares her sexy stories, honest descriptions of her sex life, and celebrates body confidence and sexual freedom.

Meet Missy, a 44-year-old bisexual, working, married mother of two, who embarked on this blogging journey out of frustration with societal norms surrounding women’s sexuality. Through her addictive engagement with Twitter and the online sex-positive community, Missy discovered a passion for photography and a desire to challenge stereotypes.

In her blog, Missy fearlessly embraces her love for sex and her evolving relationship with her husband, all while championing body positivity. She proudly acknowledges her “normal mother’s body,” complete with stretch marks and wobbly bits, defying the unrealistic standards perpetuated by mainstream media.

With a focus on sexual exploration, freedom, health, and enjoyment, Missy aims to spark conversations and challenge taboos surrounding sex. By sharing her personal experiences and intimate moments, she hopes to empower others and promote a more inclusive and accepting attitude towards sexuality.

Starting with her iPhone, Missy has honed her photography skills over the years, now predominantly using her digital Canon 750D camera to capture captivating images. She particularly enjoys photographing other people and has showcased her work in various regular memes like #SinfulSunday, #Kinkoftheweek, and #Boobday.

Missy’s proudest achievements include her involvement in the fantastic group Boobday shot at Eroticon, ranking first in the 2022 Top 100 Sex Blogs, and writing a guest blog for Girl On the Net titled “The Hat Trick.”

To keep up with Missy’s latest adventures and photography, you can find her on X as @FocusedFilthy and on Mastodon as @focusedandfilthy@kinkyelephant.com. Join her journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and unapologetic celebration of sexuality on her blog and social media platforms.