The New Topping Book

by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

“The New Topping Book” by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy is a fascinating and insightful exploration of the art of topping in BDSM relationships. This updated edition builds upon the original work, providing both newcomers and experienced practitioners with valuable insights into the dynamics of power exchange.

One of the book’s standout features is its emphasis on communication, consent, and mutual respect. Easton and Hardy approach BDSM with a clear focus on ethical practices, highlighting the importance of establishing trust and understanding between partners. Their writing is engaging and often humorous, making complex topics accessible and relatable.

The authors delve into the psychological and emotional aspects of topping, offering practical advice on how to develop and enhance your skills as a top. They provide thoughtful guidance on everything from negotiating scenes to exploring fantasies and managing emotions. The book is rich with personal anecdotes and examples that illustrate the diverse experiences and perspectives within the BDSM community.

What we particularly appreciate about “The New Topping Book” is its inclusivity and openness. Easton and Hardy acknowledge the wide range of interests and identities within BDSM, creating a space where all readers can feel seen and validated. Their approach is non-judgmental and affirming, encouraging readers to explore their desires safely and consensually.

Additionally, the book addresses common misconceptions and challenges faced by tops, providing strategies to overcome them. The authors emphasize the importance of self-care and reflection, encouraging readers to grow and evolve in their roles.

In conclusion, “The New Topping Book” is an essential read for anyone interested in the world of BDSM, whether you’re a curious newcomer or a seasoned practitioner. Easton and Hardy’s thoughtful and engaging writing style, combined with their wealth of experience, makes this book a valuable resource for understanding the complexities and joys of topping. It’s a celebration of power, intimacy, and connection, offering readers the tools to create fulfilling and consensual BDSM experiences.